The word fantasy gives a whole lot of meanings where it relates to different categories. There are travelling fantasies, eating & drinking fantasies, smoking fantasies, sleeping fantasies,
sexual fantasies.. etc. Among those sexual fantasies carries a much weight where it plays a major role in every person’s life, either knowingly or unknowingly. If it goes sound with the knowledge of that particular person then it is great. They could have control over it, life will be a bliss and, If not their life would be miserable.
Ill get this straight. Obviously it applies when it comes to two person together in a life. (Including homosexuality). According to research the reason for majority number of Divorces world wide (specialy in South Asia region) is “sexually unsatisfiction” or in the simple words “she can’t give what i want, he doesn’t have that drive i have been looking for, she is not my type, i expected more.. ” you name it. Because some people still believe that they should not have sex before their marriage. Come on? I mean we live in 21st century. So they end up living with a partner where all the emotional aspects match between each other but the physical intimacy laccks. Some might be lucky enough to have where both the aspects match between them even without having a test run 😅.
Almost all the European, American and majority of the Asian countries are not following this orthodox methods now so those numbers have begun to drop down. They have that broad mind where they will have nice quiet space between the couple without being interrupted by other external forces for a considerable amount of time which allows them to decide whether they should continue or not. It will point them out how their fantasies move together. Because everyone one of us have dark fantasies. The problem is we don’t reveal them. We try to keep them within ourselves without exploring to the other person because we fear people might judge us. Most common fear is “Im afraid i will loose her/him” . You have to get on with it. It doesn’t matter whether you will loose them or not. You have to find someone who has the same kind of mind set about those. Beside losing them at beginning of journey is way better than loosing them at the halfway of the journey.
Hold back the grudges but Don’t hold back your fantasies. Give a shout out and let that define you. The intimacy is not just about sex, it is more about breaking your insecurities with your partner and bonding over.
“Just feel sex and have a good time” 😂😂